28 November 2013

The Interview… Then and Now

I did this interview with Josh when he was 4yo and I came across it the other day and decided to ask him exactly the same questions now (8yo).  Zoë wanted me to ask her, too; so I did (separately). 


1.What is something Mommy always says to you?
JOSH at 4: Stop and I love you.
Josh at 8: I love you.
Zoe at 6: That she loves us.

2. What makes Mommy happy?
JOSH at 4: When I kiss and hug Zoë.
Josh at 8: Me and Zoe
Zoe at 6: Photographs and her children. She loves her children.

3. What makes Mommy sad?
JOSH at 4: When I fight.
Josh at 8: Me and Zoe asking to play on the computer.
Zoe at 6: When we don’t listen to her.

4. How does Mommy make you laugh?
JOSH at 4: By tickling me!
Josh at 8: Tickling!
Zoe at 6: Doing something silly.

5. If Mommy is an animal what is she like?
JOSH at 4: A bird… because a bird is an animal.
Josh at 8: A cat…I don’t know. I like cats.
Zoe at 6: A horse, because a horse’s hooves are like high heels and Mommy likes high heels.

6. What do you like about Mommy?
JOSH at 4: That your hair is so beautiful.
Josh at 8: Well, she’s really nice, like she buys me stuff when I don’t ask for them.
Zoe at 6: That she loves her family.

7. What don't you like about Mommy?
JOSH at 4: Uhm… I like everything about you, Mom.
Josh at 8: Well, she doesn’t let us play on the computer all the time.
Zoe at 6: That she yells.

8. What is Mommy’s favorite thing to do?
JOSH at 4: Work!
Josh at 8: Photography.
Zoe at 6: Taking photographs.

9. What does Mommy do when you're not around?
JOSH at 4: Look for me.
Josh at 8: Blogging, on her computer or do Baby Signs® workshops or go shopping.
Zoe at 6: Maybe in bed or reading or doing some Baby Signs® work.

10. If Mommy becomes famous, what will it be for?
JOSH at 4: A soup *Giggle, giggle* (He was drinking soup at the moment.)
Josh at 8: Photography.
Zoe at 6: Photographs

11. What is Mommy good at?
JOSH at 4: Games, like Mario.
Josh at 8: Photography, being a mom.
Zoe at 6: Photographs.

12. What is Mommy not very good at?
JOSH at 4: Leaf Cup (at Mario Wii). Tell me another question.
Josh at 8: Chess.
Zoe at 6: I don’t know.

13. What does Mommy do for her job?
JOSH at 4: Work!
Josh at 8: Photography and Baby Signs® workshops
Zoe at 6: Baby Signs®.

14. What is Mommy's favorite food?
JOSH at 4: Vegetables.
Josh at 8:Sushi and garlic peas.
Zoe at 6: Maybe sushi.

15. What makes you proud of Mommy?
JOSH at 4: When you do funny stuff.
Josh at 8: Doing quite well on the stuff she does, like photography.
Zoe at 6: That she loves us very much.

16. If Mommy’s a cartoon character, who would she be?
JOSH at 4: Jeff, from The Wiggles.
ZOË at 2: Cup. Funny, Mommy. *Cute grin* (Huh? I didn't even know she was listening in.)
Josh at 8: I don’t know about that one.
Zoe at 6: I don’t know.

17. What do you and Mommy do together?
JOSH at 4: Play Mario.
Josh at 8: Nearly everything, go to chess tournaments.
Zoe at 6: Cuddle.

18. How are you and Mommy the same?
JOSH at 4: I have light skin and you have light skin. I have stripe T-shirt and you have stripe T-shirt.
Josh at 8: We have the same taste in food.
Zoe at 6: We are girls.

19. How are you and Mommy different?
JOSH at 4: That we don’t have the same hair.
Josh at 8: You’re older than me, for a start.
Zoe at 6: You don’t have to go to school.

20. How do you know Mommy loves you?
JOSH at 4: I know everything. (Another typical Josh answer.)
Josh at 8: I just know you do.
Zoe at 6: Because she gives us many cuddles and she cares for us.

21. Where is Mommy’s favorite place to go?
JOSH at 4: To work.
Josh at 8: To her bed.
Zoe at 6: Home, because she could spend time with her family.

22. What do you want to do for Mommy when you grow up?
JOSH at 4: Cook, I guess, and draw a beautiful picture.
Josh at 8: When I grow up, I want to give you a lot of money so you can spend it.
Zoe at 6: Take care of her when she’s old.

23. What do you want Mommy to continue doing?
JOSH at 4: Play Zingo!
Josh at 8: Continue loving me and Zoe.
Zoe at 6: More photographs of me!

24. What do you want Mommy to stop doing?
JOSH at 4: Shouting at me.
Josh at 8: Stop yelling at me and interrupting me.
Zoe at 6: Yelling.
(Yeah, not proud of this.  At all.)

25. What do you want to say to Mommy?
JOSH at 4: I love you.
Josh at 8: I love you.
Zoe at 6: That I love Mommy.


After the interview, I let Josh read his own answers from when he was 4 and he was rolling in fits of laughter over some of what he said then.  Do try it with your children –the younger, the better.  Their answers are so cute, so honest, and just so…. pure.

26 November 2013

What a day.  I sit here now trying to find the right words to describe how the day went, how we felt –the excitement, the nervousness, the feeling that you’re part of something character-building, the exhilaration, the pride, that thank-God-it’s-over-but-we-can’t-wait-to-do-it-again-next-year kind of relief.

Team Fear Collage (1)
First row: Before the start of the race; ..and they’re off!; coast-steering.
Second row: Swimming to shore after the jetty jump, rock-scrambling/at the gorge, biking
Third row: The hike/run up the hill; race to the finish line; They did it!

Josh and his team did well and we couldn’t be prouder of them.  I don’t have their official finish time yet, but I reckon they completed the race in about three hours.  I was one of the marshals, so I’d missed their start and their finish and the only part where I saw them was when they rode past my station on their bikes. (A huge thank you to the parents of Josh’s teammates for the photos above, as I didn’t get a chance to take pictures!)

You’ll see in the pictures above pretty much what they had to do throughout the race, with the exception of the jetty jump.  I don’t have pictures of that, only a video.  They had to jump off a 3- to 4-metre wall into the water.  Josh said that was the most fun part of the race for him.  Before jumping, he’d asked if there were rocks below and when assured that the water was deep enough for him to jump without hitting any rocks, he just took off – no hesitation.  I must have watched the video at least 50 times and each time, I’m just in awe of how brave he was.

When I finally saw Josh after everyone had finished the race, he already had his medal hanging on his neck.  I don’t know who was prouder of his achievement –me or him.  He was all grimy and sweaty, but I gave him a hug anyway. 

Josh says that he definitely wants to do the race again next year.  I’m very grateful to the Team Fear organizers for putting this race together year after year (12 years running now).  I think the race gives the children a sense of great accomplishment and a sense of what it means to be part of a team. 

Now, off to round up sponsors for Josh for completing the race. The money raised will be collected by the organizing committee and “will be donated to local charities for under-privileged children and the needy in Hong Kong, in particular the Youth Outreach.”  (Please email me at buckeroomama@gmail.com if you want to be one of Josh’s sponsors.)

21 November 2013

For the Birds

While the birds and the cages at the Bird Market were a pretty sight, I couldn’t help but also feel sad seeing the birds all caged up.







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19 November 2013

It’s always interesting to visit the Bird Market.  All the pretty birds, the cages, the old men chatting, the tourists, the chatter…




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17 November 2013

Lowepro Camera Bag Giveaway

I have found a camera bag that I can use as my day bag –one that is lightweight, has plenty of zips, AND one that allows me to lug along my water bottle as well.  You are looking at the bag that I’d been carrying around with me wherever I go for the past few months – Lowepro’s 12L Photo Sport Shoulder Bag.

The Photo Sport Shoulder 18L

Some days, my D90 will be in it; most days, not.  I love that I don’t have to keep switching bags around when I want to bring out my DSLR. 

It has a little padded insert/bag that houses the camera for when you want it along.  The padded bag is attached to the bottom of the main bag with velcro, so that it doesn’t move around and because the velcro runs along the entire bottom, the insert can be placed on either side of the bag or in the middle for better distribution of weight. 

For days when I don’t carry my DSLR, I simply take out the insert and use the bag as I would any other bag.  For a better idea of what I mean, please check out the pictures here.

One thing that makes this my bag of choice, even for days when I don’t have my DSLR along is that it has a side pocket for my water bottle.  I carry a 0.6L water bottle on me whenever I go out and the bottle fits perfectly in the outside pocket of the bag.

I love the two zippered exterior pockets. This is where I usually keep my transport cards, packets of wet wipes, lipstick, mints, my phone and my keys.  It saves me from having to open up the main bag and scrounge around for these things.  In the main compartment, I have managed to fit a (thick) hardcover novel, my wallet, my scarf, a small towel, an extra lens (50mm) –together with the DSLR.  Without the hood on, my DSLR fits just perfectly inside the padded insert.  It’s a bit snug with the hood on, but it still fits.

One time, I’ve had the bag sitting in a pool of water (that I didn’t realize had spilled from my water bottle) and though the outside of the bag was wet, the inside was perfectly dry.  I’ve been out in light rain with the bag a couple of times and both times, the inside was absolutely dry, as the bag is made with lightweight, weather-resistant fabric.

Bottom line:  I love this bag and how versatile it is.  I love that I can use it as my every day bag even when I don’t carry around my DSLR with me.  I love how lightweight it is and I love the many pockets it has.  The fact that it also has a pocket especially for my water bottle makes it a winner in my book.

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12 November 2013


Those who do not know are fearless.  Did somebody famous say that?  If not, then I lay claim to the quote.

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We had signed Josh up for Team Fear.  He is racing as a team with two of his schoolmates.  According to the organizers, they will be doing “coast steering, rock scrambling, biking, running and water jumping, and this year the total distance will be about 11 km.” Something like a kid version of a triathlon.

Last Saturday, because Chris was out of town, I’d accompanied Josh and his team (and their dads) on a practice run.  We did the rock scrambling part and a bit of a hike up a hill.   The rock scrambling part was by (up?) the gorge.  It was more challenging than I’d expected.  It was like rock-climbing without a harness.  Certain parts were slippery and therefore treacherous, but the children held up very well.  I actually had fun, despite my now screaming muscles.  It made me want to take up rock-climbing again.

When we finally made it out of the gorge, I’d thought to myself, “That wasn’t bad at all. I survived and more importantly, I didn’t embarrass Josh.”  I’d thought that we were done.  Not so.  We were to still hike up a hill that seemed to me like it would take months before we would reach the summit.  Still I gamely trudged on, holding up the rear.  We’d reached a point almost to the top when I spotted a flat rock, with a bit of shade.  I claimed my throne and waved them on, telling them that I would meet up with them on their way down (the same path), and caught my breath and hydrated myself.

It took us all of two hours to complete what we did, but apparently, that was only about half of the course that the kids will do on race day.  I asked Josh if he was game enough to jump off the jetty (about 2- to 2.5 meters high) and he said yes.  He’s pretty excited about the race, as are his friends.  It’s their first time participating.  All I pray is that the weather on race day will be beautiful and that all will finish with no injury.

11 November 2013

This month’s theme is Faceless Portraits.  I found it both easy and hard to get faceless pictures.  Easy in the sense that when I’m out shooting in the streets, people are camera-shy and would, more often than not, avert their faces or turn away when they think that my lenses are pointed at them.  Hard, because at any one time, there are SO many people out in the streets of Hong Kong that you are bound to get at least one face in the photo… which makes this theme quite challenging and fun.
















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05 November 2013

Been Busy (and Camp Debrief)

…with this and that.
What else is new?


Josh is home from camp.  We’d missed him so much.  Zoe could not stop hugging him.  I couldn’t get over that he only lost one pair of socks (!).  He shared plenty of stories of what they did at camp.  He told of how he volunteered to help one of the teachers make hot chocolate for all the kids, because “I make really good hot chocolate!”  He does, he really does. Josh was lucky enough to be assigned to a special room (reserved for teachers apparently) with two of his mates.  They had their own private bathroom and shower AND a TV.

He brought home little gifts for us.  Zoe got an orange-blue plush Angry Bird. Chris got a mini model galleon and I got a small keychain.  Josh bought himself an Angry Bird, too –one with spots, aptly named Spotty.

After all the excitement of camp, Josh was a bit under the weather over the weekend (feverish), but he’s all well now and looking forward to going to camp again next year!

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It’s been a while since I’ve joined the I Heart Faces challenges, so I thought I should start playing again.  I’ve missed participating in the challenges.  I’ve learned so much from so many of the photographers –both from the I Heart Faces core team, as well as from fellow challenge participants, –that I’ve “met” there.  Just taking this chance for a shout-out to all of you who have inspired me with your photos, with your words, and with your generous spirit in sharing your knowledge.  Thank you,  I Heart Faces!


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